The Love Experiment…

 Meeting the right guy and dating can be like deciding what to wear on a night out… you don’t just want to seem nice, you want to sparkle. You don’t want a dress to say you’re an easy to read finished book but you also don’t want the guy to leave thinking that you’re some over the top fruit and nut cake. So how do we meet in the middle? What is the perfect amount of “normal” mixed with the perfect amount of “youness” to make him weak at the knees? Well, after some much inspired film watching with the housemates of the chick flick “How to lose a guy in 10 days” I’m going to attempt a little experiment of my own and ask “How to make a guy fall in love in 60 days?"

   Don’t get me wrong at this point I have no idea if it will work out or not… I’ve never been in love so this could be headed for disaster but I think it’s important us girls know what really makes guys tick and what boxes we tick off as we get to know them and they get to know us. Understanding how we go about not just being the perfect date but how to make him feel that warm, fuzzy feeling us girls experience oh too often when we fall in love is something many girls have asked me? How do we know when a guy is on the same page as us? Is he a flirtatious “friend” or is he really in to you? Or is there a third option where you’re both just as confused as each other about where the relationship’s going?

   So, I’ve set myself up for a challenge here which is great in the sense I get to go out meet new faces and generally do what I do best in talking but there is of course the slight feeling of guilt in me using this purely as an experiment and this guy not knowing my ulterior motive. They say you can’t plan to fall in love and I’ve always believed that to be true but maybe you can? Maybe, you are either someone who is going to let themselves feel those butterflies in your stomach or not? Maybe, you’re someone who, like me keeps themselves guarded and is afraid to let someone else in so falling in love doesn’t come as naturally to you as some? But, either way you can find love if you know how to play your cards right and deal the right hands and I’m hopefully about to find out what that is?

Wish me luck!